It is usally common for people to make resolutions about losing weight, becoming fit, finances, giving up smoking, giving up drinking habit and other things. However, it is imperative for couples to have their own new year resolution on how to move their marriage foward and stronger.
Peoples marriage crumbles every minute, and researchers have said that 1/2 of the marriages that stood the taste of time carry the ” moniker ” of happily married, this is the reason you must make your own new year resolution to make your marriage extra ordinary.
Investing more on marriage should be one of the greatest plan every couple must learn to do this begining of the year. Great and happy family do not just happen; the couple that invest more in their marriage tend to enjoy more “satisfying and pleasurable intimacy with each other.
It is true new year resolutions tend to have gotten a bad ” rap” for not working out for people some time. However having a new year resolution can help you to streghten your relationship or marriage. One of the reasons why it doesn’t work for others maybe their inability to make other smaller plans that will help make it easier for them to achieve their goals.
One of the steps you must adopt to make your resolution work is to sit down with your spouse, get a pen and a paper, get two glasses of coffee, brainstorm together and draft the new year dos and don’t s of your marriage, having in mind what worked and what did not work in 2014.
Every marriage that want to shift from a sour relationship into a more happier and sweeter one must resolve to put more attention this 2015 than ever before using these tips I listed below
Make your Spouse your Priority:-
In the world where there are so many things that will crave for your attention, it will be good to remember that you have someone that needs your attention more than any other thing and that is your spouse. This 2015, make it a priority to put your spouse at the top of every plan you make.
Treat your Partner better than you Treat your Friends:-
Some couples takes thier partners for granted and some times they find it hard to treat them the way they should. Have a check on yourself to know if you say things or do things to your husband or wife that you would never want to do to your best friend, if yes, then try to make some adjustments. Remember it will take some time to manifest.
Keep Passion Alive:-
If you think your marriage have become somewhat boring, if you do the same thing all the time and yet things are only going in circle, then the alternative you have is to change your partern. Chose to keep the passion alive. Do things that will juice up your marriage.Try some new hobbies or outing together.
Spend More Quality times Together:-
Many couples are too busy that they never give thoughts to the imporant things in their lives. Plan to spend more quality times with your spouse this 2015. It maybe having a more date nights or weekend out together,it will be appreciated by your spouse.
If you found yourself unforgiving in 2014, then you must do everything to forgive more this 2015. There must be trouble and mistakes but forgive as soon as you are asked.
Make your Sex Time number one:-
If your romantic experiwnces as a couple use to be passionate, then you have neglected it so much now that the passion is gone. The best thing you can do is to give more attention to it. Make plans for “sex dates”. Read some sex self -help books,watch sex videos and work on your sex lives.
Listern more Often:-
Learn to be a good listener than talker. You parner will want to know how well your interest is in whatever he/ she told you.
Have and Cultive one Common Goal:-
People want to do things that are of personal interests to then. However, this 2015 to build a more happier marriage, you must try and learn new interests with your spouse.
Finally, Remember to improve your communication level and appreciate your spouse the more.
When you share more time with someone, it becomes easier for you to overlook those things you do not like about them.
Always remind yourself of why you fall in love with your spouse in the first instance. Try to complement your spouse often this year.
Like I said before, it is not that easy to have a happy marriage, but making a new year resolution and.getting committed to working with it this 2015 will be a step forward in making your marriage more stable and more stronger.