If you are tired of waiting for that man, if you are sick of being single and you are not sure if you will ever get married the next 5 years, then I have good news for you.
This post is all about holding you by hand and showing you how you can genuinely attract that perfect man and also make him fall head over heels in love with you.
At the end of it all, you’ll discover the secrets that will make you get into any man’s head and initiate that marriage proposals you’ve been dreaming of.
Imagine becoming irresistible to any man =))
If this is exactly what you want to achieve, then let’s get down to business.
The fact is that =))
All your dreams to meet and get married to the man of your dreams has landed you into so many troubles.
You have fallen to the hands of cheaters, playboys, and you have been through so much disappointments and heart breaks.
However, after reading this post, you will know that the power to get married is all in your hand.
You will be able to tell when a man is ready to settle down and how to make him want to, even if it’s not in his plan.
Before we get down to our business of the day, let’s learn a little about men.
Who are they? What are the things that make them the men they are called? And how would you know if a man is thinking about settling down?
All these are important, because until a man is really ready to marry, he can never ask you to marry him no matter what you do to lure him.
You can never succeed in getting any man commit to you if you are ignorant of his makeups. Know the things that motivates and drive him and how he loved you.
forget about your plans to change him when you get into the relationship. It absolutely will not work, consider that the greatest mistake you’ll make in life.
What I want to let you understand here is that there are three important things that is of great importance to any man, and that determines if he will ready to settle down:
1) Who he actually is.
2) What he does.
3) And how much they earn.
All these will occupy every man’s mind and give him no room for any thoughts about settling down, and unless those three things are settled in his mind.
Of course he may not have the whole things down, but immediately he finds out that his dreams are taking shape, and that he is capable of taking care of his family, then that’s when he starts thinking about you.
Now you know what drives a man, and certainly you can win any man of your choice. Isn’t it?
Here is how. = ))
– Be completely irresistible to any man:– This is a trick many girls have not tried before, but frankly speaking, if you know how to make a man beg for it, then you’ve got to have any man at your fingertips.
I said this because I know that being irresistible will
a) Make him want to travel from a far place just to see you again.
b) Will make him wanna call you every minute.
c) Will make him beg you to go and meet his parents and above all
d) Get to his kneel to beg you to marry him.
It doesn’t matter how you look or how you are dressed, you need to be the woman you are right from the inside.
Do you really want to be wanted by every men?
Here is what to do
– Be confident of yourself:– Helen Rowland said in his quote that ” The woman who appeals to a mans vanity may stimulate him, the woman who appeals to his heart may attract him, but it is the woman who appeals to his imagination that gets him”.
Confidence is one of the qualities men don’t joke with when they find it in women.
A confident woman never seeks approval to do anything she wants.
They love to be themselves and know what they worth and are also confidence that she can get whatever they want in life.
If these qualities I mentioned are not in you, then you have to work on your low esteem to increase it.
– Be original :- Quote “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it”.
Be who you are always and do not pretend to be who you are not created to be.
If you are the type of girl that believes you have to look like Princes Diana, or you prefer dressing in a particular way just to draw men’s attention to yourself, then you are not doing yourself any good.
Men likes it when you are proud of you are, I don’t mean being arrogant, but you are proud of your look.
Learn to express and respect yourself, because no man will respect you if you don’t have respect for yourself.
– Always be a mystery:- It‘s always tempting to divulge everything about you to that man, after all he is your would be husband. But wait ! Do you know that men respects you more when they take time to understand you and what you are made of?
And so to create a spark into that man’s curiosity about who you are, don’t tell everything about you, allow him to do the findings all by himself.
– Be available and easy to be with:- It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are, if you don’t make yourself available and easy to be with, men will run away from you.
All men wants an easy and pleasant life and so sometimes playing hard to get works, but frankly speaking men don’t like drama queen.
2 Be mature Emotionally:- Quote ” The Criteria of Emotional Maturity: The ability to deal constructively with reality The capacity to adapt to change A relative freedom from symptoms that are produced by tensions and anxieties The capacity to find more satisfaction in giving than receiving The capacity to relate to other people in a consistent manner with mutual satisfaction and helpfulness The capacity to sublimate, to direct one’s instinctive hostile energy into creative and constructive outlets The capacity to love”.
William C. Menninger.
If you are the type of the woman that lies to have her way in everything, you shout almost at every and you don’t mind crying until you are not mature emotionally.
Truly you are matured in age, but to be matured emotionally comes with experience.
Emotional maturity implies that you have the capacity to manage and control the intensity of your emotions.
You know yourself so well that even when your man says or does things that triggers despair in you, then you are still calm, however, that doesn’t mean you’ll swallow everything, both the ones you like and don’t like you like, but you always look for the better ways to settle everything.
If you understand the process of managing your emotions well, every man that comes your way will definitely see you as an amazing girl to be with..
3 Set a standard and have a requirements:– If you are in marriage market and you don’t know what you want, then you are setting yourself as a playground for men.
You should build a fence for yourself by getting your standards up, that not every dick and harry can have his ways with you and get away with it.
Let them know that you are not as cheap as other girls.
You should always have in your consciousness that whenever any man succeeds in tricking you, then it was you that gave him the opportunity to do that.
Men hangs around women for just these two reasons.
a) To get married to you
b) To use you and dump you.
If he succeeds or fail, that depends on you.
The good thing about this is that we men are very simple people, if you tell us what what to do, we will not fail to do it especially if its to our benefits..
Men pursues a girl to know if she is cheap, and when they find you cheap, they just treat you like the other cheap girl.
However, if you let them know what qualities you are made of, then they will decided if they will stick around or take to their heels..
4 Take good care of yourself:- learn how to look your best at all times. Every man hopes to get marriage any time, however not to every type of women.
They want to marry a girl who knows how to take good care of herself. Remember the way you look is how you’ll be addressed.
So look good all the time, dress properly and make that man desire to marry you.
If it’s your desire to get married to the man of your choice, then you have to stand up to your feet and do the necessary things and then wait for them to come running to you.
I have taken my time to write on those steps you should take in this post.
It may not be all easy, but doing what is needful will help you achieved whatever you want.
Remember, if you continue doing things the same ways, you will continue getting the same results.
Read this post carefully and take actions where necessary and always be expectant of good results.
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