Divorce is the worst thing that could happen to any marriage. I hate divorce with all my heart and I know you do too. What usually comes to my mind when I see couples filing for divorce is this;: Is there nothing that can be done to stop it? Of course there is.
No couple came together to separate the next day. They have plans to live together, have their own children. They have plans for their marriage. However they see thing crumbling at a certain time. Even the greatest couple in this world could divorce if they are not careful to handle issues in their marriages. Are there really things you could do to save your marriage from collapsing? Perhaps you have said it with your mouth that you don’t want a divorce. That is good. It is the beginning of the steps to save your marriage from failing.
This article is not only for those that are having challenges in their homes right now: It is equally important to you even when your marriage is rosy. Consider this as a way to thank God and take a mental snapshot of what you are enjoying right now in your marriage. Some day you may find yourself going through the same, or a person you know may have the same challenge and this may be a very useful tool you may want to have at that point in time.
Check out these points.
Consider yourself first
Take a look at yourself in the mirror. Ask yourself if you are the main curse of the problems in your marriage. Are you the reason why your spouse is filling for the divorce? May be it is because you are not treating your spouse well. You will know better if the fault is from you. Then make a u-turn. Things will start changing if you could only change.
Learn to forgive
If only you could forgive that which your spouse did to you, there may be peace. Most people find it very hart to forgive their spouse. Do not go out or go to bed having any grudge against your spouse.
Remember the first date together
Do you ever consider those good days when you first saw your spouse, how you fall in love, how you could never wait to fall into his loving hands, how you always want to feel the worm touches, the kisses, the hot romances you had together. These thought will make you to say no I don’t want divorce; I want to stay the rest of my life with this person.
Be sincere and ask for sincerity in return.
Sincerity matters in every marriage. Try and be sincere to your spouse at all times and in all things. When you are sure that you are sincere, then ask your spouse for the same in return.
Talk it over with your spouse
Be open to talk to your spouse about the current state of your marriage. Do not pretend there is no problem in the marriage. Communicate your feelings together and solve the problems. You can seek the advice of a good therapist if that would help you sole the issues.
Praying is always the first solution to every challenge. Take some time to pray for your marriage. Pray for your spouse, pray for your children and for every challenge you notice in your marriage. Remember you don’t want a divorce in your marriage and only God can grant your heart desire.
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