23 Red Hot Bible Verses to navigate your marriage Storms

bible verses for couples,love, happiness in marriageSurvey shows that every marriage goes through one challenge or the other. But, that is not what I want to talk about today.


However, if your relationship looks exactly like what I described earlier, question is where do you go for guidance?
– To your friends?
– To your parents?
– or do you swallow it yourself?

Wherever you get your guidance purely describes how great or less important it will be.


Let me tell you a place to get the best guidance in life.


If you are a good bible student, you will know that God gave us the bible to quide us, and whether you are a newlywed couple, husband and wife, or probably you married 10 years ago, you can get whatever guidance you desire from the word of God.


In this post, I will show you 23 Red Hot bible passages that will help you navigate the storms of marriage.


If you are ready, then let’s move ahead.


23 Red-hot Bible verses to navigate your marriage storms.

For Power and strength of marriage


1) Ecclesiastics 4 verse 12 :-
“Though one may be overpowered,two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”


2) Mark 10 verse 9:- “What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”


3) Amos 3 verse 3:-
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?


From these bible verses, you will realized the importance of living and working together as a team.

Bible clearly stated it that one can chase one thousand and two can chase 10 thousand. It is only God that can tell us how the arithmetic can to be.

But, the description is united you can stand as couples, but divided you will fail.

So learn to work as a team and make your relationship become stronger by the day.



4) Ecclesiastics 9 verse 9:– Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun—all your meaningless days.
For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.

5) Ephesians 5 verse 25:- Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

6) 1 Peter 4 verse 8:- Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

7) Proverbs 5 verses 18- 9:- )
May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
A loving doe, a graceful deer—
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be intoxicated with her love.

8) Proverbs 31 verse 11- 12
The heart of her husband trusts in her,and he will have no lack of gain.
She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.

9) 1 Peter 4 verse 8:- Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

10) Titus 2 verses 4, 5:- Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.

There is absolutely nothing better than love. Bible told us that love covers a multitude of sin and love is the greatest of all the commandments.

In any marriage were there is great love, there is absolute peace and harmony.

The opposite is also present were there is no love.

commitment in marriageBE COMMITTED TO YOUR MARRIAGE

11) Malachi 2 verse 16:-
“The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,” says the LORD Almighty.
So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.

12) Philippians 2: 16:- as you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain.

13) James 4 verse 17:- If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.

14) Psalm 133 verse 1:– Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.”

15) Genesis 2 verses 23- 24:-And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

16) James 4 verse 17:- If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.

Commitment is important in all lives endeavor.  When you are committed to anything, then you make every effort to make it work out good.

Where there is commitment in your relationship, everyone works towards the success.




17) Ephesians, 4 verse 2 – 3:-
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.


18) James 1 verses 2-4:– Trials and Temptations
Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.


19) 2 Corinthians 4 verse 18:-
So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.


All these verse are teaching us to learn how to be patient and also forgive our spouse.


Never keep track of the wrongs, remember, there were times when you believed your partner could never be wrong, and those day were the time everything were moving well.


If your should try and remember how happy both of you used to be, then you will learn to forgive and be patient with your partner.




20) Proverbs 24 verse 29: Do not say, “I’ll do to them as they have done to me; I’ll pay them back for what they did.”


21) Malachi 2 verses 14- 15:-
You ask, “Why?” It is because the
LORD is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.
Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.


22) Ephesians 4 verses 31- 32:– Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.


23) Ephesians 4 verses 11:- The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.


Love yourselves, trust yourselves but the most of all is to treat yourselves well at all time.

Out of millions of people in the world, you choose each other.


So forget other side attractions and live for each other. That is one of the tools you have to make your relationship move forward.

Couples Finance: 4 business Any couple can do from their bedroom

couples finance, couples budjetThis is my 16 years in marriage, so I can conveniently prove to you that one of the cause of major problems in marriage related to finance.

A survey conducted by Sun Trust Bank, using people in marriage or partnership reveals that 35 percent of stress in marriage .

Obviously, money is important in any relationship, because it touches everything every other aspect of marriage.

In this post, I am not going to share how money cause stress in marriage. but I want to reveal to you simple but fascinating business any couple can do from their bedroom to boost their finances.

If you want to join the ride, then let’s go on.
Most of the do from home business I will show you here is what I do that sustains my marriage and if you follow me closely, you will get the results am getting and even more.

4 Fascinating business any couple can do from their bedroom

  • What would you need for this business?
    You See, most of it are done online so you will be needing.
    – An Idea of what you want to do.
    – A good laptop or smartphone
    – A good internet connection.
    once all these are in place, then you are good to go.

But, why must it be an internet business?

The answer is- because million of people are connected on the internet and that includes your customers. So if you are not doing businesses on the internet, then you may be leaving so much money on the table.

That is the last thing you want to do isn’t it ?

Then follow me closely.

Here they are

couples blogging, make money blogging1) Blogging :– I guess you have heard so much about this blogging.

But you are not so sure what it is all about and how you can go about it.

You are not alone. A lot of people are in your shoes.

Granted, I am here to show you how to generate good income through blogging like I do and so many others like Linda Ikeji etc.

What is blogging ?:- It is simply an online journal.
it is the same as newspaper, only that this is done on the internet.

You can set up a blog just to write about your passion or your interests.

I have seen so many blogs on fashion, cooking, diet, gossip, weight loss, and so many other things, and do you know that most of them are generating good cash through that?

Now to start your blog, you must consider what you know best how to do, so you wouldn’t find it hard to share to others, when I say others, I mean millions of people that will be connecting to you through the internet.

I have a blog too and I write on marriage.
Here is my blog http://www.happymarriagebuilder.com



Here is the answer
There are many ways to make money through blogging, but I will share the most important ones here.


1) Through Google Adsense :- When you look at my blog, there is something I have there that people click on without knowing and that generates money for me, even while I am sleeping.

Google ads, is an advertisement placed on google by an advertiser, and then when you sign up with Google. some of the ads that is related to the content of your site will be placed on your site and you will receive a corresponding commission when anyone clicks on the ads from your blog.

It is one of the easiest ways to get money on the internet.
Firstly , you need a domain name. Example www.yourname.com
Choose a name and then register it here.
Secondly, you need a hosting space.
checkout here

Or consider joining my Facebook group to learn more about blogging.


couples finance,information marketing, happy marriage2) Creating and selling your own products:- Yes, you can create your own products and offer it to your readers to buy.

I know what you are thinking now.
See! It is very easy to create a product and I can show you how, if you contact me through my email.

I have two of my products on Amazon.com
See them here.

Here is the second one here

If you have not read any, just get one for yourself .

However, what am trying to tell you is that if I can do it, then you can do it better.

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3) Affiliate programs :- Did you think you can’t create your own products?, Affiliate marketing gives you an opportunity to promote other people’s product and get a commission for doing that.

Depending on what your blog is all about, you can sign up with http://www.clickbank.com and look for a product your readers will like and promote it using the affiliate link they will provide for you.
It is easier than you think.


Second  Business any Couple can do from their Bedroom

couples finance, couples budjet, make money onlineAGAM/QUESTRA:– This means Atlantic Global Asset Management.
This is a twin company which works independently, but are linked motherly.

AGAM is the investment part of the company (Questra Holdings), and they pay 3-6 percent on any invested fund every week, and for a year (52 weeks).

To put simply, any fund invested is on a yearly basis, however, your investors profit is released every Friday for withdrawal.

The good thing about AGAM/QUESTRA is
– It is not a Ponzi scheme.
– It is not MLM.
– It is not a Donation exchange platform.

it is simply a highly sustainable business investment that gives you an opportunity to earn.



All investors funds are invested into


Your invested is insured up to (53 million Euros reserved fund) so no fear of losing your investment.


Visit here
Fill in your phone number, starting with your country code, example 234, 233, then your email, fill your name, and default password will be sent to your phone.
Try and edit it.
After, you can login at http://www. private.atlanticgam.es and fill your profile sections correctly.



you can find your account using perfect money, bitcoin, sky pay, Bank wire or directly Euro from other existing partners.



Here, you are not buying any physical products only the color coded packages, I mean the yellow, white, red, blue, etc.

The products are sold like this

  • 90       Euro.
  • 270     Euro
  • 810     Euro
  • 2430   Euro
  • 7290    Euro
  • 1870    Euro


couples finance, work from home business

But remember, the product are no physical.
Use this calculator to see how much each package is and also learn how to compound your profit.


Like I said earlier, you will receive your payment every Friday.


– All invested funds are invested in real online and offline business.
-Investors funds are insured (up to 53 million reserved in Euro)
– No big bonus payment plan to swallow the companies funds.
– The companies leaders visible as they organize leadership / training meetings such as in Dubai.
– The funds are diversified into different investments to safeguard against general loss.
-Every package earns for 52 weeks (a year).


Third sit at home business couple can do


3) Become an online assistant:– People are searching for help everyday on the internet and probably you could be the answer to their questions. I mean you.

Think of what you know best to do, a lot of people are looking for who will teach them just that.

All you need to do is to find those looking for your service and render it to them for a few dollars.

I will show you how to find them

First go to https://adwords.google.com/KeywordPlanner, login with with your g mail and search for your keyword.

you will be amazed at how many people are searching for it in Google alone.

From search about WEIGHT LOSS,

Then secondly go to google and search for where your target audience are meeting.
One of those places is a forum.
Forum is simply a place where people of like mind come together to share their happiness and grief.

So look for them, build relationships with them and then market to them.

To find them, go to google and search this way.
fashion + discussion forum, or weight loss discussion board.

Understand that many forum have rules, simply understand what you should or shouldn’t do.
b) Go to Facebook and look for groups or pages with like minded people, join the group and make good contribution, solve peoples problems in the group and them people will trust you.
When I Searches fashion on Facebook, here is what I got.
You can as well start your own group.

C) There are platforms provided, where you can quickly market your passion.

One of those places is http://www.fiverr.com

In Fiverr, you have opportunity to market your talent starting from $5 and above.

All you need to do is to create an account in Fiverr, then browse the categories and see where You fit, and then create your own Gig.
Note that for a start, all your gig’s will be sold for $5, but don’t bother about the price for now, when you start getting more orders, then you will see that $5 is not small.

There are so many other platforms like Fiverr.com,

One that is closely related to it is http://www. fourerr.com. you can check it out and you can as well search google for alternative.

Fourth Sit at home business couple can do

couples finance,freelance writer

Freelance Writing:– Are you good at writing? then there is an opportunity for you to write and make money even from the comfort of you home.

Did you really think you can write better? then you have what it takes to make it big as a freelance writer.

All you need to do is to

  • Believe on yourself.
  • Get yourself prepared.
  • Learn more about how to write.
  • Keep an open mind.
  • Always consider yourself an expert.

When all these things are in place, then the next step is to find a way to put yourself out in the market.

Remember, you can’t make any money, if nobody gets your service and so try everything possible to let people know what you can do.

Don’t be afraid, remember, I promised to show yo everything.

Here is what to do.

a) Tell your friends and neighbors:- Word of mouth can get you a good result, so start telling your neighbors and friends about your services: it will surprise that a lot of them are looking for someone to do that for them.

You can print a business card or fliers and distribute to people around you and watch what will happen next.

b) Join freelance writers groups/websites:- Granted, there are lots of website that gives yo an opportunity to place your services for sell.

Elance is one of them. They have a wide range of categories, just look for what is related to your service and start with.

problogger:- visit and find out.


c) Create a website for your service:- The best and the easiest way to promote your business is through a website. Just think of creating a website that will describe  your job well to millions of people on the internet, and since your business is online, you will get good results.


Finally:- These are goo and tested online business that can make good money to you.

You have the right to verify all that I have said here before you join. Always remember that noting good comes easy.

However, If you follow my steps, you will be successful.




8 Common mistakes Of the Newlywed and how to Avoid it

newlywed mistakes, save your marriageYour expectations as a newlywed couple is to enjoy a blissful marriage till the end of the time. That is good, but can it be achieved? My answer is ‘No.’


Here is why I said that
There will always be good times and bad times in relationships, however, all of them makes up the marriage.

Linda says ” The honey moon phase will always end”. Those interesting day when your spouse can never do wrong, they will disappear one day.

A survey was conducted, and some newlywed were ask how they saw their marriage unfold, and many predicted to have a stable marriage: However, after few years, there was a sticking decline in martial satisfaction.

The reason is because “Once spouse get settled into their roles, the excitement of being married wears off”.
says Justin Lavner.

One secret trick to stop it from happening in your relationship is to delete realistic expectations from your marriage book.

Are you surprised with what I said?

Let me explain.
Whenever you think you deserve all the happiness in this world, always know that there must be some bumps along the way.

Always be clear that things may happen and relationships will not be the same again.

When you have these in mind, you will make a plan on time to be ahead of the game.

In this post, I will show you 8 mistakes newlywed couple make in their early stage of marriage, so you’ll know how to avoid them.

Let’s get started.

Eight Common mistakes newlyweds do in their early stage of marriage.

1) Not thinking beyond the wedding :- Many couples are busy planning about the wedding that they utterly forgot that there’s another life after the wedding.

If only they understand that the party will only last for one day, and that no matter how interesting and fun it will be, it will surely end and the new life will begin from there.
Now it is time to live together, it is time to get along as husband and wife, it is time to build your own family.
That’s right.
Enjoy your wedding, make it s grand event, but always have the big picture in your mind.
Because it is your life as couple.

2) You assumed marriage is always fair, just and beautiful :- Marriage comes with ups and down just like every other thing.

If you are going into marriage thinking everything will always be juicy, then you will be very disappointed in time to come.

Even the so called happy marriage have their set backs too.

Actually, it is not a rocket science to have a happy marriage.
If only you will learn to do the little things that matters daily, then you will definitely succeed.
I have written a book that will show you little things you can do to succeed in any marriage.

3)Keeping secrets :- At the early stages of marriage you were open with each other, you could share any secret with each other and you are comfortable to divulge anything.

Then something happened and unknowingly you started keeping little secrets from each other.
Keeping secrets will always come back to bite your relationship.

Be sure to be open to each other, share your feelings, your success, your failures, your joy as well as your anger.

You will somewhat discover that the more open your communication is, the stronger your marriage will be.

4) Acting like you are still single :– Being single and being married are two different life all together.

Marriage means growing up.

As a single you had more time to hang out with friends all night, you go to clubs, you spend money unnecessarily.

Now there are more responsibilities, you will have to think of how much time to share with your significant other.

5) Sharing little time together:– Marriage is just like a flower. You attend to your marriage the same way you do a flower.
Note- If you don’t give quality time to your new flower, it will not survive.

In other words you have to manage your schedule in such a way to have quality time to spend with your partner.

6) Comparing yourselves with the other couples;- All fingers are not equal, and two people are not created the same way. It is true the other couple are living in their personal house, while you are in a rented apartment.
They travel often to Bahamas during holidays, while you are not.
Hear this; If you concentrate on counting what the other couples have and what you don’t have, then comparison starts and that is one thing that causes chaos in a relationship.

You will be so distracted from keeping up with your marriage and you will lose your track.
Just go on and enjoy what they have, but never be envious of them.

7) Goals overloaded:– Just like in other things, it is also good to set goals, however, don’t set complicated goals for your marriage, set simple goals that can be easily attained.

8) Spending more that earned:- The way you spend money while it was only you will not be the same now.
There is need to plan as couple, do not let your expenditure overwhelm your income.

If your spend more than you earn, then you are calling for more trouble in future.
I suggest you have a family budget and spend from there when it comes to anything concerning your family matters.

Finally:- Do everything you could to make your relationship better. Never hide anything from your partner.

Avoid these little mistakes I have mentioned in this post and watch how your marriage will thrive.

I am still your friend Murphyaik.
See you at the top.