Valentine is here again. it a time to take stock of your relationship and know if love still exists and it will be good if you’ll think and apply a more perfect approach in other to recharge your marriage /relationship.
We usually feel disappointed when we want to use our cars and discover that the battery is completely down, or maybe you want to make an important calls, only to realize that it’s completely out of power.
However, when something is of utmost importance to us, it becomes imperative to make sure that it always charged up.
To put simply, using the concept and relating to your marriage, you’ll understand that if your marriage is really important to you, then you’ll try everything there is to make it the best.
Wouldn’t you make it a point of duty to keep the relationship you share with your partner red-hot?
Everyone of us desires to have a fully charged marriage, but we are always lost in the sea when it comes to the steps we need to take to achieve just that, since there is no manual, or any plug on your spouse’s body were you can just plug into electricity for charging just like telephone.
However, it is not a rocket science when you want to re- charge your relationship.
Granted, in this article, I will show you very simple ways to add daily dose of energy to your marriage.
I obviously know that this can freak you out, but i am fully convinced prayer is just one intimate act couples share together.
Prayer is a weapon you”ll always make use of when things looks somehow in your relationship, because you can’t do it alone. Read Proverb 5 verse 3 and you will be fully persuaded that only you can’t do the work.
It’s true God cannot come down to do the nurturing for you, but wisdom is all you need, and only God can give wisdom.
Learn to pray in and out of season for your marriage and your partner , holding hands.
That will bring you more joy to your marriage.
2 Write love note:-
Intrigue your partner by writing love notes. Hide them in secret places, but where your partner can see it; in her wardrobe, dressing table,his pocket, on his car seat.
Getting an unexpected love notes, especially in the morning can bring an awesome and equality evening of intimacy, and help to keep passion strong. If you have not been doing that, then start today.
3. Romantic date helps:-
In February twenty four 2012, a report was released by the National Projects of the University of Virginia, that date nights is one of the important ways couples can have some more time for themselves.
This is true, because during date nights/ romantic dates, couples have more time to shower love to each other, they also have more opportunity to communicate: and good communication helps them to understand each other better.
Date night/ romantic dates helps partners to rekindle the the romantic sparks that helps to sustain love and joy.
4 Switch off and switch on:-
Technology have helped to make life easier, and has also jeopardized our relationships. We spend good time with our electronics gadgets, more than we do to our marriage.
If only couples will learn how to unplug from their gadgets for some time and concentrate more on time with their spouse, things will move better, and their relationship will thrive better.
5 Learn together:-
No one knows it all. Make it a date to learn and learn and learn, just keep learning and growing as couples.
Share interesting books, videos and memories together. It will help to boost your relationship.
6 Give special gifts :-
Giving gifts is a medium for couples to express love to each other. Although not the only way, however, if you understand how important gift is to your partner, then you must also know how to give good gifts to him or her. Remember, you don’t have to break a bank to buy gifts for tour partner. Just give with your heart.
7 Create planning time:-
Having a successful marriage/ relationship is not an easy task, and it doesn’t come by merely wishes. You have to plan it, just the same way you plan you business.
It calls for creating special time when you or both of you plan about the next steps to take to get things working again. So take sometimes off from work or plan a vacation for both of you to do the planning.
If you desire to recharge your marriage, you should try and do whatever is necessary to achieve that.
I am pretty sure most of the points I listed here will be a good start for you.
So I have done my part now, the rest depends on you.
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