Nothing can spice up marriage like when couples do weird things together; it creates a very strong bond between the two.
The happy couples understand this secret of doing things together very well, and they never stop in the way; not when they know well what impact it can make.
It is true some marriage experts said it is not proper for couples to do everything together; their point is that each partner should still have some personal interests to tackle alone; that is good.
My own take on that is when couples continue to pursue individual interests and never show interest about the partner’s goal, they will sooner or later find out that they have become too far apart from each other and may suddenly create a valley among then.
The statistics of marriage success is each one giving 100 % of themselves and not 50/50 or even 80/ 20. So if you know that marriage becomes stronger when couples do things together, won’t you be very happy to do so many weird things with your partner?
One of the main things that can grow your marriage faster than you think is looking for a way to do so many things together as couples.
Here are few things it does to marriage.
– It creates great unbreakable bond between you and your spouse.
– It gives you room to value each other better.
– Each couple understands how committed the other is in what concerns him or her.
– It makes the marriage atmosphere so relaxing.
– It provokes strong intimacy among couples.
Now tell me, if these things are present in a marriage, how do you think the marriage will look like? Splendid isn’t it?
This article is to help you discover weird things you and your partner could do together to increase your love.
If you are willing to know them, now follow me closely.
1 Make love in a public place at least once: That is funny, isn’t it? But, it can be fun. Although not in an open place, but it will be good if couple can “break out of bed” sometime to enjoy sex. You can find a secluded area in the railway station, your kitchen, the backyard or somewhere people cannot see you.
Make it snappy and be smart so people don’t see you. This maybe the weirdest thing you can do together, and a new sex experience.
Tell me what you feel about this.
2 Try your spouse’s hobbies: One common ethics of married couple is – my husband likes to eat pork, like watching football, prefers to play basketball every evening; my wife likes sewing, reading celebrity magazine.
When you talk about movies, my hubby likes detective movies and my wife loves zeeworld television; that is okay.
Everybody have different interest, but it may be a very serious issue, when partners assume that every of their free time should be strictly for his or her interest.
When couples get caught up in only what matter them individually, it may be detrimental in future. So if you are so much interested in making your marriage work, then I think you should to looking into those things that matters to your spouse too.
That may give you different view of your spouse. You may not like it after trying, or trying to make it your hubby too, but it is worth trying out.
3 Take bath together:When was the last time you took a shower with your spouse. Taking shower together gives you an opportunity to explore your partner’s body. You will also have time to discuss private things together.
Taking shower together is another awesome time to treat your partner by scrubbing and washing her back and she scrubs you.
These weird things are good for creating bonds between you and your spouse. Sometimes during the bath together, both of you will realize that closeness and how the soft touching have turned into foul play, and sexual activities.
Just go ahead and have it there, if the atmosphere is charged for sex, don’t hold back. It may be another wonderful experience.
4 Spend quality time together:One of the reasons most couples disconnect in their marriage is lack of time together. So tell me how much time do you devote to spending with your wife?
Spending time together is not just about having sex and cuddling, It is more about having separate time together where you can just be with your spouse, with all electronics shot out, and both of you are locked in the euphoria of the moment.
It takes learning new things to make a relationship or marriage working, but when couple shares quality times together, they have time to share ideas and learn from each other.
Although it is always very hard to find time to spend alone due to the activities of the day, however, couples who want to feel happy in their marriage usually find a way to create this time for themselves.
Here are few ideas to find time for your spouse:
– Plan romantic date nights: plan to have date night at least once in a week or once in a month. Make it a weekend thing, when both of you will be a little bit relieved from work.
– Send emails and text massages: If you are connected to internet, that means you can send emails to her and you can as well send text from your mobile phone to her. Let him or her understand how you are missing the moments you share together.
Tell him/ her how you can’t wait to be close together in the evening.
– Make a special dinner for both of you: It may not be that easy to have free times to share together, but you can make a candlelight dinner in your home when you close from work. Cook your partners best and make it a surprise dinner for him or her.
– Try laughing sessions: Share funny jokes and laugh. This will help to bring you closer. Get joke a day calendar and enjoy it in the morning before going out.
5 Fondle each other in the street: Happy couple doesn’t plan how they express their love to each other, it comes natural and that is why it feels genuine to them.
Let your expressions of love be natural. Hold her hands while working down the road and fondle each other. It will make the two of you funky.
6 Tickle each other all the time: I love tickling my wife whenever I come around her and she is always at alert to tickle. Nothing feels as good as tickle fight.
7 Sing together: You can choose a special number and sing just the two of you. It doesn’t matter how bad your voice is, it may sound great to your spouse. Remember to laugh loud when your partner is not hitting the musical notes pretty good.
8 Dance together: just get the grove on. Use the plates, bottles and the cup as your musical instruments. All you know is that both of you are having fun.
9 Go swimming together: go on a swimming date and splash water on each other. Take a dive under the swimming pool and let your spouse look for you. But make sure you know how to swim.
10 improve your home together: This is important because how you make your bed is how you will lie on it. So look at your home and see where attention is needed and then try and improve it together.
11 Recite the marriage vow together: You should remember the day you tied the nut (wedding) you made promises to each other. Sometimes just hold your spouse’s hands and looking straight into his or her eyes, recite the marriage vows once in a while. It will make you feel stronger.
12 Read and discuss a book together: Is there any book that excites you? Then read it to your spouse and discuss it together. That may be another opportunity you have to share another weirdest adventure.
13 Have a secret language: I was amazed when i heard a couple taking in short hand. Although I did not understand them, but they hear and understand each other very well. So have a coded language, secret hand gestures, smile or nod and use it when you want to relax.
14 Wear each others clothes: Have you or your partner asked you for your dress to wear? Did you know that one of the ways couples who have spent lots of time together express the love they have for each other is to borrow each others clothes. The women can borrow their husbands T-shirt and the men can jokingly try to put on anything that belongs to the wife.
15 Send texts from the other side of the room: Amazing! Isn’t it? You are in the same room with your partner and you are texting love massages to each other. I am not sure how to explain this, but it is the weirdest thing you can do together.
16 Groom one another: brush your spouse hair, use the ear bud and clean the ears burst the pimples, and you can as well removing the out of place hairs in the hair.
17 Try the liking love gesture: If you have a pet like dog in the house, one of the ways it can express love to you is by licking you or wagging its tail. You can do the same to your spouse. Use your tongue allover. It may not be nice though, but you are expressing the love.
18 Welcome the rain together: When the rain is about to drop, make a plan to get wet together in the rain. It is another way to have fun.
19 Just relax: you are not making love or caressing each other, but you are just relaxing in the inner room with your wives head placed in your chest. Put you mobile gadgets in airplane mode for the whole day that will make you focus with each other.
Over to you: Take the conversation further.
May be you have tried other weird thing that I didn’t mention in this article. We will love to hear from you.
Remember sharing is caring.
See you at the other side.
Your friend murphyaik.