I decided to write about this topic “ The importance of sex in your marriage”, because I know that most couples have neglected the power of sex in sustaining their marriage. A lot of couples have been through series of problems in their marriages because they neglected to solve the problem of boring sex life.
Marriage is a very sacred institution that needs day to day attention. It does not end in planning your wedding very well, or having a wonderful honeymoon. It does not even matter if you just married today or you have been married for a very long time, there is every need for constant planning, nurturing and learning. There’s so much more to discover about marriage, and to make your marriage more successful and happy, you must devote yourself to learning those things that will improve the quality of your marriage.
It is a must do.
The sexual relationship of your marriage is one of those aspects of your marriage you need to know more about.
There is a proof that passion in marriage often reduced after a long time of relationship. Couple usually discover that there is a reduction in their sense of humor, urge for sex as well as libido. This could make marriage fall or become boring if care is not taken.
I have seen so many marriages collapsed because there is no sexual satisfaction. Probably, the man or the woman went outside the marriage to get that satisfaction. And let’s face the fact. If your spouse gets the satisfaction he/ she need outside, then it may be very hard for you to get your spouse back.
The reason that couples are not supposed to go out to get sexual satisfaction, calls for you to try everything to improve the sexual relationship in your marriage.
I have listed some of the way you could improve on it.
3 Steps on How to Improve Sex in Your Marriage.
Improve Communication in Your Marriage:– Communication is always important when it comes to making a marriage work better. Make it a priority to improve communication in your marriage. There are so many thing to talk about with your spouse. Talk about your general marriage and family, talk about your fantasies, about your sex life. Communication will increase the closeness of you and your partner. It will also help to bring intimate relationship between the two of you.
Create the Atmosphere:- This start from sending an emotional text massages to your spouse when she/ her is away. Tell those beautiful things that will make your spouse feel loved. Tell him/her how you love to be alone, just the two of you. This will begin to send good signals to him. When the two of you are together in the house, don’t rush things. Welcome him/her with a worm kisses, hold the hands and gently caress them.
Then when you are on the bed, take some time to do the foreplay. This will create an atmosphere for good sex.
Have Quickies :- Do not have a specific time of having sex. Most couple wait till they are on the bed before they could have sex. No! it doesn’t matter where, how, or when. The best is to have quickies. You can have it before you go out for work in the morning, you can have it in the kitchen, at the sitting room, in the bathroom, in the car anywhere that you feel like.
All these will help to improve your marriage boring sex.
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