Roles of a Husband in making Happy marriage.(happy marriage advice).

Having a happy and lasting marriage is not a man alone or woman alone responsibility. However, it is the responsibility for both couple.
This simply means that everyone has his or her own part to play to make the dream of a happy family a reality.
I want to quickly give you some tips on how to develop yourself into becoming the best husband in the world, if you are not so yet. But if you are already one, I say kudos to you.
I decided to share this because I know it is the recipe of every successful and happy marriage.
To become a wonderful husband, lover and friend to your wife, can not happen over night, it is going to be something that will constantly evolving if you will simply practice all I will share with you hare.
Now let’s get to it. Ok!
The first step to take is to be.

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1 Honest – One of the main recipes for every successful marriage is to be honest to your wife. Saying the truth at all times should be the best thing you should learn.
2. Be romantic- Every woman in this world has a way of feeling loved, look out for your wives likes and dislike, and always find a way to express affection to her.
3. Give surprise gifts to her- Women cherish gifts, no matter how small. So always find a way to give her gifts when she is not looking forward to it.
4. Always be available- Learn to be available to her whenever she needs you. At times they get overwhelmed by children and other domestic works, do not hesitate to help out in some of the works. You can even choose to cook her favorite.
5. Be her confidant- Let your wife be rest assured that you are there for her at all times. Let her know that you are someone she can count on. Protect her both physically and morally. Be her complete backup in all things.

Happy marriage (The do’s and don’ts)

Before two people come together as husband and wife, their main goal is to have a happy and successful marriage. However thing started changing when the marriage began to mature. To the couple, they just noticed that things are not rosy the way they use to be. The joyful and happiness that they feel when they are together, the day out they used to share together starts dwindling. Now they want to be on their own. What is the reason, why would couple start experiencing what they have never thought about before they come together in marriage? There are thing that is lacking. I want to share some secret tips to make your marriage sweet and juicy again
1. Never expect perfection in marriage – Marriage happened when two people of different back ground, different parent, some times different ethnic groups come together. Because of these, there is no use to believe that everything will be perfect all the time. If you have this in mind before going into it, you would have bullet proofed yourself to those challenges that will come in future. Also always understand that your spouse is a human being who passes through stress and challenges all the day and you know what stress could cause. Therefore expect some imperfections and make allowances for those human conditions.
2. Think about how to make your spouses life better every day- Do nice things for your spouse. Think nice thoughts and most of the times, pray for your spouse.
3. Complement each other all the time- Always fine time to complement each other. Hug each other often and say how beautiful or handsome your spouse each. Always be sincere when you are giving the complements.
4. Share responsibilities in the house- We are no more in the world where the man works, and the woman stays in the house. Every bodies hand is on deck now to help makes thing easier in the family. Since every body goes out and come back almost at the same time, why would the domestic works is left to only one person to do? Do help to relief the burden from your couple.
5. Love when it is too hard for you to love- Whenever I hear that couple are filing for divorce, I began to thing about where those first feelings of love, joy, and peace that was once present in the marriage have gone to. Obviously, when two people come together in marriage, they have feelings for each other, though the feeling usually become cold as the year goes by, you could still remember those moments of blissful feelings and say “ I am committed to this marriage , and I can’t let it die”. Just try to love one more time, and restore your marriage back as a happy one.

4 KEYS OF A HAPPY MARRIAGE

imagesAre you still maintaining a happy marriage since it is six year you said your wedding vow?. Those feelings you had the very first time you fell in love with your spouse, those blissful moments of euphoria you have when your marriage was young and new are they still there? If I could show you the 4 keys to a happy marriage, would you want to work with it? Only you could answer those question.
If those feeling are no more there, then let me ask you one important question; Would you want to have them back again? Would you still want your marriage happy, strong and long lasting ? reading this article could be a great help to. You will be able to get some important keys to a happy marriage that you have never seen before in this articles if you will pay more attention to all I will show you here .

Below are the 4 important keys to a happy marriage
Learn how to sacrifice to your marriage

There is every reason why you really must make sacrifices for the growth and happiness of your marriage.
Simply put, you know that there are things you do which is taking more of your time, which leaves with only little time for your family. If you will only be willing to let go of those things, you may be able to save your marriage from crumbling. Many men choose to hang out more with their friends instead of their spouse.
These  could little by little bring differences between you and you wife, which will eventually bring quarrel and separation. Sacrifice those things now and bring your marriage back the way it was before.

2 Don’t try to change your spouse

Before the marriage, there where so many characters you may not have seen  in your spouse to before you married he. These characters may start becoming conspicuous to you as the marriage goes on. It may be very tempting for you to believe you could change it by force. Know this, it may not work if you try to change him or her, the only thing you could do at that time is to go down to your kneel or rather accept it.

3. Don’t keep track on the bad

One of the 4 keys of a happy marriage you must you must pay more attention to is never tracking on the bad things but the good. If you really want to strong relationship with your spouse, you must hold this particular marriage secret firm to your heart. Learn to focus your attention on the good qualities of your spouse, most marriages crumble because the people involved are only remembering the bad attitude of the spouse instead of the good one’s. The best thing Is to complement the ones her or she did right and advice the way it could have been done to be right.
4. Say sorry more often

Your ability to show how sorry you are when you did something wrong will help to build your marriage, Saying I am sorry will make you have peace of mind.

A happy marriage is a union of two people who are good at forgiving each others mistakes. There are other step you could take to achieve your goal. However I think theses 4 keys of a happy marriage should be a priority in your list

HOW TO HAVE A HAPPY AND STRONG MARRIAGE

how to have a happy and strong marriage, happiness in marriage How do you feel when you see other peoples having a happy and strong marriage but not you? Bad isn’t it. Don’t worry you are not alone. So many people had or are still having the problem too.

 

So many marriages are on the verge of breaking up, even as at the time of writing this article. Is this really the wish of couple? Do they really want to break up after coming together? Of course not.

 

It is always every couples desire to have a sweet family, but somewhere along the line things starts changing. The love they all once knew starts getting sour and eventually breaking up becomes the final result.
If your marriage is in this state, there is a good news for you.

 

You can actually have a happy and strong marriage today by following this simple steps that I want to share with you now. It may not be a quick fix, but a gradual process.
One important thing to know about having  a happy marriage is that it is not a man only or woman only affair, both of you must be involved and committed in making it happen.
So what exactly is  it that makes a marriage strong​ you may ask? It is no rocket science, but just love, understanding and learning.
Have a positive mind about your marriage

 

 

Always have a positive mind about your marriage. From the very beginning of your marriage, make up your mind how committed you want to be in your marriage. This will make you to always be in the repairing end instead of destroying end. You already knew that you want the marriage to be a happy and long lasting one, so what ever your spouse does, you simply call it a mistake, and immediately look for a way to fix it, because you know you are committed to this marriage. Just keep your mind in your main goal which is to have a happy and strong marriage.

 

 

Increase in emotional intimacy

 

 

Emotional intimacy is imperative in making your marriage successful. It is simply a sense of closeness with your spouse. When there is an emotional intimacy in marriage, there is closeness, there is more cuddling, more kissing, more communication between you and your spouse. Couple are found sharing more moments alone, may be discussing about their love for each other. If there is no time for both you and your spouse to talk, then try and create that time, it will help to bring back the good times.

 

 

See your spouse as your friend

 

 

It is better when you see your spouse as your friend instead of a husband or a wife. This will give you the ability to share more with him or her. Seeing yourselves as husband and wife make it look as if one person is above the other.

 

 

Communication is very vital – Communication between you and your spouse is very important. This simply means the ability to share feelings together. Always have time you discuss with your spouse about how to move your marriage forward. Looking at the things you have done so far, think about the mistakes you have made so far and plan how to correct it and move forward.
Increase your emotional bank account-

 

 

I decided to add this because it is almost the worst enemy to having a happy and strong marriage. Most at times, the things that brings discord in marriage are those little promises we made to our spouse that we did not fulfill or may be we forgot to execute them. In my own marriage, I realized that I made promises that I did not fulfill, so when I made a new promise, my wife will not believe me. Until I learn how to fulfill my promises, my wife refused to trust in me.
Learn how to forgive

 

 

Another way to have a happy and strong marriage is to learn how to forgive your spouse when he or she offends you. Many people fine it hard to say you did something bad to me but I have forgiven you. Since marriage is the coming together of different people from different backgrounds there is bound to be squabbles, but the ability to forgive and forget will make you to keep moving as one.

 

 

I am sure these points will help you so much to get your marriage back and happy again.